Wednesday, December 06, 2006
Can love and sex be separated?
I had a yum char session with PJ gang few days back. And this is part of our conversation.*
Leng: I don’t understand why you guys think that love can’t be separated from sex! You see XX’s case, she got pregnant and get dumped at last. How pathetic?
VE: Ya loh, last time my BF wanted to have a further move, but I rejected.
Me: Why? He’s not ‘good’ enough?
VE: Hmm, no. But how if I get pregnant? I’m still damn young to take care of a new baby. I don wan to be next XX. Gals are always the rugi ones…
Jason: Well, does that mean you will agree to have sex if you won’t get pregnant?
VE: Hmm… (soundless). But… Aiya, donno how to say.
Chris: Her BF don like wear condoms I think. Haha. No worries, we have WK. Hey, show her what you have learned. The BMO thing…
Me: BOM la…
LL, VE, Ivy: What’s that?
Me: BOM stands for Billing’s Ovulation Method. In simpler words, it uses natural ways to achieve or to prevent pregnancies. For more information, please visit my blog more often. You can also make an appointment with me if you want to learn. Hehe.
VE: You!!! (pointing chris and i)
Ivy: So is that true? Guys think that love and sex can’t be separated? What you guys say?
Jason: I think it is a one-whole-package. But I’m a responsible one la. Not playing around one…
Me: Well, I’m neutral. I think sex is important but not the most important. Just let it be lo…
Chris: Same as him! (pointing me) no further questions allowed!
Ivy: Why no people stand on our side one? *sigh*
Heng: NO, I think love can be separated from sex!
Ivy: At least there is a guy stands on our side! *grinning smile*
Heng: You’ve got me wrong! Love can be separated from sex means I can have sex without love…
We all “fainted”…